Why I Won’t Pray For President Obama


He doesn’t agree with my political philosophy.

He is ok with abortion.

He is a closet Muslim.


Why I WILL pray for president Obama:


IF all of the above were to be true, then he needs lots of prayer!

Because no matter who is in the office of the president, NO president will ever be perfect…they all need prayer.

Because we are commanded to by Paul (1 Timothy 2:1-4).

And no, this is not the type of prayer I’m talking about!

Let’s join together and ask God to give our president peace and wisdom as he governs the affairs of our nation. Let’s ask God to bless his family. Let’s ask God for his presence to be made known in our president’s life.

What’s your choice?

I Saved My Son and He’s Mad at Me

The other day, Evelyn and I went and grabbed a bite to eat at a local restaurant.  We took our little ones (Isabella and David) while the other two were in school.

While we were eating, David (our 2 year old) decided that he wanted to eat as big of a piece of meat as was possible.  So, he did.  Then he started choking.

Not coughing.  Choking.  Turn blue in the face type of choking.

Here enters father (aka Superman).

I reached over the table and hit him hard on the back 3 times.  He immediately spit up his food.

Thank God!

Then an interesting thing happened.  He looked at me and almost started to cry.  His look was one of anger.  He immediately cuddled with my wife, trying as much as possible to ignore me.

I thought when we save people there was supposed to be some type of gratitude.  Some acknowledgement of the good that was done.  Some appreciation for risking my perfectly good eating hand to save his life (ok…it wasn’t that much of a risk).

No.  Only anger.

And it made me think.

The reason he wasn’t happy with me is that he didn’t understand the fact that he was in trouble.  Although he definitely felt the pain of his situation, he couldn’t connect his pain to my actions, which were meant to relieve his pain.

He didn’t have enough faith and trust to believe that what I was doing was for his good.  While he had to suffer momentary pain, in the end, his life was being saved!

And so it is with us.

So many times, God has to take us through moments of pain in order to save us.

We may not understand the full reality of our situation.  We may not know that we are in deep trouble.  But, God does.

And he responds.

The problem is that many times we lack the faith to believe that what God is doing is meant to help us…not hurt us.  We get angry with God, wondering why he allows certain things to happen to us.

Have you ever stopped to wonder if the bad thing that’s happening to you is something that is saving you from much worse?

If we have the wrong perspective, we end up getting angry with God, instead of thanking him.

Choose to thank God today, and he just might reveal to you the “what” and the “why” of all those things that have happened to you.  Choose to look to God with eyes of faith, trusting that he is looking out for you and knows what you need.

For the record, David was happy with me about 5 minutes later.

The Error of Spectatorship


(crossposted here)

Spectating is a national pastime.

We have phrases that prove this:

“Armchair quarterback”

“Backseat driver”

We spectate at so many things. We watch sports on tv. We regularly attend shows, sporting events, theatre productions, and so much more.

And, here’s what all of us do, both during and afterwards: We critique.

How was the show?

What did you like about it?

What didn’t you like?

Should I go see it? Why?

Why is this team losing the baseball game? What is the pitcher doing wrong?

On and on and on.

Now, I don’t find anything particularly wrong with us critiquing when we are enjoying entertainment.  We’re typically not hurting anyone and we are simply giving opinions.

But, I have noticed a trend of spectatorship that has gone much deeper than entertainment.

I have seen too many people being spectators of life.

While so many things are going on, while the world is constantly changing, while there is so much to be done, people remain comfortable, sitting on the sidelines of life, watching, and never participating.

And, here’s the problem: the spectator’s chair of life is one that always leads to a life of unhealthy critiques and demeaning judgments, one which never helps anyone improve or make things better.

There’s an interesting story that I’ve read plenty of times, but only recently noticed what I’m talking about in this post.  King David was bringing the ark (which was the symbol of God’s presence with his people Israel) into Jerusalem.  While doing so, an interesting thing happened.  This is found in 2 Samuel 6:14-16.

14 And David danced before the Lord with all his might, wearing a priestly garment. 15 So David and all the people of Israel brought up the Ark of the Lord with shouts of joy and the blowing of rams’ horns. 16 But as the Ark of the Lord entered the City of David, Michal, the daughter of Saul, looked down from her window. When she saw King David leaping and dancing before the Lord, she was filled with contempt for him.

David was dancing with joy.

People were shouting with joy.

And they even brought out the ram’s horns for the celebration!

And notice this, in verse 15, it says “all the people of Israel” were with David doing this.

Except for one.

I love the picture this story gives us of Michal, David’s wife.  She was looking down from her window.

This is the spectator’s stance: One who is positioned (at least in their own minds) high above everyone else, looking down on their idiocy, their craziness, their stupidity, despising them for what they are doing.

Could you imagine what would have happened if she would have joined the dance?

Later on, David had a conversation with her about her wrong attitude.  It didn’t go well. In fact, the end result was that Michal remained childless the rest of her life (verse 23).

I see that happening with so many people today.  They sit on the sidelines…of life, of the church, of experiences, and so much more.  And, as a result of their own critiques, they are so filled with hate and disgust that they end up living life “barren”. 

Barren of joy, excitement, life, love, and so much more.

This post today is a call: Step into life, join the dance, be a part of the party, experience all that God has for you.  Do NOT sit anymore on the sidelines of life.

There is too much at stake.

Welcome to My New and Improved Blog!

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